Couples trouble signs

All is far in love and war.  What does that saying really mean?  Are they saying there is a similarity between the two?  I am not sure if that is what they are saying but there are similarities between the two.

The things that are the same I guess are when the two turns from love into war.There could still be love for the two of them, but they are usually in a battle like it is a war.  I have seen this first hand doing couples counseling San Diego.  A once loving couple is now fighting constantly.  It is my goal to bring peace to the two.And reclaim that long lost loving relationship.

So what are some signs that trouble is brewing?One of the warning signs that is a huge sign is the lack of communicating.  Or should I say lack of communication.  For any relationship, communication is key.Since it is crucial, if you as a couple are able to know that there is less communication, that is a sign.  It is a warning sign of trouble.  Whether I am doing couples counseling or as a marriage counselor in San Diego I see it all the time.  After all if you can’t communicate, every little thing can become a big problem.  Proper communication helps avoid that.

So as a family therapist San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.One of the keys to unlocking the ability to communicate is the ability to listen.Most people when they think of communicating think it is about talking.  But really if you don’t listen well, you don’t really understand each other.So by teaching the couple how to listen more effectively, the communication between them will improve greatly.

By recognizing this sign couples can know trouble may be brewing.  If a couple is able to recognize this in their relationship early they can avoid problems. From what I have seen probably the best method of solving issues is to not have them in a relationship.But if you don’t notice it early, the way to solve it best is to learn how to effectively communicate.Sounds elementary but it can and will have a positive effect.